All you can think nowadays is “my wife doesn’t want me anymore”, and you also think that your marriage is over and nothing you do can save it. You think, “A marriage needs two people to survive… one won’t do. My wife doesn’t love me anymore and so there’s nothing I could do about it.” Well, that might be right – but who says you can’t affect how much your wife loves you? On the contrary, you can. There are lots of things to do to make your wife love you again!
Isn’t it true that your wife once was in love with you? And she married you? She married you only because she loved you. But then time passed, and things happened that caused a shift in her feelings. The change was big – so big that you thing “my wife doesn’t want me anymore”. It can definitely be the case that your wife doesn’t love you anymore, but what you should understand is that she “loved” you, and then something happened to change that.
(When my own marriage was about to collapse, I saved it using the Save My Marriage Today guide by Amy Waterman. Click to read my Save My Marriage Today review.)
My Wife Doesn’t Want Me Anymore – You Can Reverse It!
I want to stress this point. If something that happened between you changed her feelings, you can make another, “antidotal” thing happen that will change things again and make your wife love you. So, what could that thing be? A lot of things. It could be that she is feeling neglected. Equally possible is that you are doing things that irritate her. It could even be that she feels suffocated because you are being too tight on her.
The most usual case when a husband thinks “my wife doesn’t want me anymore”, though; is that the woman feels a lack of connection to her husband because he changed a lot since the first time they married. Sure everyone changes a lot, but my experience from counseling so many women tells me that it’s usually the husband who changes very rapidly after marriage. But surely this is not the only possible case.
Which brings me to my last point. If you want to learn how to fix your marriage, you simply need to be open about everything and have a productive conversation with your wife. This is one of the major points the Save My Marriage Today program is about (click to visit the program’s site directly). Men are not good at talking about their feelings, but it’s something you need to do if you want to save your marriage when you think “my wife doesn’t want me anymore”.